Friday, January 23, 2009

Effective Communication Skills


Chamber mentioned that communication is an art. I definitely agree with it, because I feel that one needs to know how to use it well, be flexible, experience it and not just by memorizing a set of guidelines. Communication is not just a daily routine; it is a way where people can interact with each other and also enjoy the process.

Developing effective communication will help one to convey accurately his views, intentions and achieve the desired outcome such as being able to convince his audience. The other party will be able to understand what exactly you are trying to say or even feel it is a pleasure to speak to you. It can take place in a formal or informal setting such as in meetings, presentations, communicating with family members and friends.

Communication is more than just speaking what you want to say, it also involves your tone, gesture, active listening, right use of language in a comfortable manner and it also depends on who you are speaking to.

It is important for me to grasp the skills of effective communication. Besides the points mentioned above, as a student I would go through written communication such as writing reports, oral communication for example asking questions or presenting ideas and to also prepare myself in a working world after graduation.

Through past jobs and internship experience, I understand the importance to present myself well. Besides creating a good impression and avoid misunderstandings, effectively communicating not only benefits yourself it can also benefit the people around you. For instance, working as a customer service officer, I get to speak to many different customers who called in with different enquiries. Callers may sound helpless or angry due to some mishaps. It is important to be patient, show empathy and help them to solve their problems as much as possible and also to let the callers feel at ease via the usage of proper communication.

No doubt effective communication can improve productivity level. If one lacks effective communication or ignores it, one may not be able to convey accurately what he wants to say or unable to build up good relationship with people or may even lose patience in communicating when his intentions are not understood. Therefore, it is important to learn and use effective communication.

7 comments:

  1. Hieyo! I do agree that communication is an art that cannot be mastered by memory work. As for others to be happy communicating to you, I'm wondering if it includes boosting the ego of the other party? And for showing empathy towards the callers when you were working as a customer service officer, I'm wondering if effective communication can help to convey the intentions you want others to believe but which you don't actually have? For example, leading the other party to believe that you are empathetic when you are actually not?

    Jane, you got me thinking. Nevertheless, I always believe in sincerity. Happy CNY!! >_<

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  2. I agree with you, Jane! Many a time, we need to practise what we have learnt, and this is more so for communication. We learn through our interaction with and feedback from others.

    And Kalene has got very thought-provoking questions. :)

    - Christine

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  4. I'm so sorry, I posted the previous comment using the wrong blogger account! So I've deleted it.

    I do believe that communication is an art and I absolutely agree that communication is not just about memorising a set of guidelines but to practice what we have learnt.

    Communication in the workplace is definitely important in creating a good impression of yourself and allow others to understand what you are trying to convey. Good service also brings along emphathy and lending others a listening ear.

    To add on, I believe that active listening is also important in the process of effective communicating. If the customer service officer could not listen actively, how is he/she going to give valuable answers?

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  5. Hi Jane,

    I also believe that communication is an art too. It would give a bad image (especially for interviews) if a person just memorises a set of rules and applies it strictly.

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  6. Hi Kalene and Christine,

    Thanks for your comments. I think for Kalene questions on empathy, need to come from your heart. As if each time you were acting, over the long run, I feel it will be very tiring if you keep on doing or saying things that you don’t really feel.

    Good service comes from the heart. :)

    Having the other party to enjoy the process while interacting with you, I guess it also include or more than boosting the ego of the other party. This is because my point of enjoying is to be able to communicate effectively and comfortably with each other. For example, being a promoter, you pro-actively search for potential customers, but you don’t really be pushy, if the customers are not very interested, you should be more professional by saying “thank you for your time, have a nice day”.

    Cheers,
    Jane

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  7. Hi Yuan and Bernard,

    Yup, the receiver needs to listen to the callers actively, if not he or she will not be able to attend to the callers needs well.

    Thanks for your comments. :)

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